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Dating Psychology


Why Everyone Ghosts in Austin (and How to Stop Taking It Personally)
Austin ranks 4th in the U.S. for ghosting. Here's why it happens, why it isn't about you, and how to date here without taking the silence personally.
Sarah Harkness
Jun 38 min read


Dating Burnout Is a Nervous System Problem, Not a Character Flaw
TL;DR: Dating burnout affects 79% of Millennials and Gen Z. Peer-reviewed research shows that emotional exhaustion compounds over time rather than improving. It's not apathy or avoidance; it's your nervous system exhausted by an environment designed to keep you searching, not settled. Understanding what drives the burnout, rather than just managing it, can shift the pattern. There is a way back, but it does not start with more apps. You've done the apps. Probably all of them.
Sarah Harkness
Apr 147 min read
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